Friday, June 28, 2013

Independence Day - Celebrate Your Freedom to Breastfeed


     
 Oh the wonderful sunny days of Summer are upon us.  Laying out at the beach, baseball games, and family reunions.  Summer involves lots of outings and family gatherings. 
     For those of you breastfeeding new little ones, enjoying Summertime can require a little planning.   We know that baby is going to eat throughout these gatherings and arrangements will have to be made to provide comfort and discretion for both Mom and baby.
     How can you provide nourishment and share these private moments when you are in public?  Certainly pumping a bottle of breast milk is an option.  However, the heat and the “extra luggage” may throw a kink in your plans.  Breast milk is only good for about 5 hours before it needs refrigerated, but on hot Summer days it can spoil more quickly.  So, without carrying a cooler around, you may have trouble feeding baby good milk. 
     We know that a receiving blanket or a Hooter Hider can conceal breastfeeding from wandering eyes when you are in public places.  But sitting in the sun (or shade, when it’s 90 degrees outside) with a cover up over his head can be very uncomfortable and distracting for baby.  He may get too hot and want to pull the blanket off of his sweaty little head.  When the blanket comes off then Mom becomes uncomfortable.  You may feel exposed to the peepers all around you.  
     How do we solve these dilemmas and still breastfeed?   I always wanted to feel discrete when breastfeeding so that I did not offend anyone around me or embarrass myself.  I did take comfort in the fact that most of the time I was surrounded by my family and friends.  And they were great breastfeeding supporters.  
     Generally, people accept breastfeeding for what it is….taking great care of your baby.  And honestly, when my babies were nursing I was mostly hidden behind baby.  Sure people new I was feeding her, but her head was blocking the most important part.  Plus, her little hands were usually resting on my chest holding her “bottle” hiding even more of me from sight. Next time you are nursing at home, go stand in front of a mirror and you will see that most people can’t see as much as you thought they could. Realizing these things helped to calm my anxiety, and gave me more confidence about nursing in public. 
     But there is more!!  The law is on your side as well.  In September 1999, President Clinton signed into law the "Treasury and General Government Appropriations Act," which included legislative language by Congresswoman Carolyn Maloney (D-NY) to make breastfeeding legal anywhere on federal property.

"The last thing a mom needs is someone giving her a hard time about her decision to breastfeed her child or accusing her of violating arcane 'indecent exposure' laws," Maloney says. "The only thing indecent about breastfeeding is that some women have been harassed about it."  


  According to the National Conference of State Legislature website, Forty-three states, the District of Columbia and the Virgin Islands have laws with language specifically allowing women to breastfeed in any public or private location
     Twenty-eight states, the District of Columbia and the Virgin Islands exempt breastfeeding from public indecency laws
     Twenty-four states, the District of Columbia and Puerto Rico have laws related to breastfeeding in the workplace
     Twelve states and Puerto Rico exempt breastfeeding mothers from jury duty
     Five states and Puerto Rico have implemented or encouraged the development of a breastfeeding awareness education campaign.

Mo. Rev. Stat. § 191.915 (1999) Missouri Law requires hospitals and ambulatory surgical centers to provide new mothers with a breastfeeding consultation or information on breastfeeding, the benefits to the child and information on local breastfeeding support groups. The law requires physicians who provide obstetrical or gynecological consultation to inform patients about the postnatal benefits of breastfeeding. The law requires the Department of Health to provide and distribute written information on breastfeeding and the health benefits to the child. (SB 8)

Mo. Rev. Stat. § 191.918 (1999) 
Allows a mother, with as much discretion as possible, to breastfeed her child in any public or private location.  Medical experts agree that breastfeeding is superior to formula feeding and recommend exclusive breastfeeding for the first six months of life and continued breastfeeding to 12 months of age and longer thereafter as the mother and baby so desire.
     
     So celebrate your Independence Day and feel free to breastfeed your baby without being harassed or feeling embarrassed.  After all you have the right to "bare arms" and shoulders and even breasts while breastfeeding your baby.
Jump in and breastfeed with
confidence. The law is on your
side
.
 

If someone asks you to stop breastfeeding in public give them this card to educate them regarding Missouri State Law and Breastfeeding.



License to Breastfeed
Missouri Law:  “A mother may, with as much discretion as possible, breastfeed her child in any public or private location where the mother is otherwise authorized to be.”
R.S. Mo. 191.918



Friday, June 7, 2013

Our Baby is Home!!!!

Introducing John Jr., the latest Volcko to join the ranks of our family.  This is my nephew, who apparently likes to live on the edge and keep us on our toes.  John arrived May 28, 2013 but soon gave us a scare and had to spend a few days in NICU.  After lots of prayer he is breathing better, nursing well, finally home and has effectively initiated his parents into the strong, determined, worry inducing, tearful, prayerful life of boys. 


 I think he was just giving us a little taste of the exciting life he is about to lead us through, but we have already forgiven him because he is just so beautiful (ahem, handsome).  So take a deep breath John and Missy and enjoy the ride. 

Thursday, June 6, 2013

Safe Kids Baby Extravaganza





June Prize Basket

 
Hannah
 When I was thirty, I found myself sitting in a recliner with a newborn at the breast, a three year old on my lap and a five year old sitting on the arm of the chair beside me.  One arm wrapped around baby with her head in my hand and the other hand holding a story book.  At that time, when Hannah said it was time to eat, my other little girls knew it was story time for them.
     Hannah was (and still is) a cuddley girl.  She wanted to eat at least every two hours, and could see no reason why she couldn't sleep in my arms or at least be held until the next feeding time.  I am not going to say she was needy, but she was over a year old before she walked and I don't believe anyone else was allowed to pick her up or hold her until she was well over 18 months old.  I was a frazzled, tired mess for the next few years after Hannah arrived.
     When you have little kids in the home, you don't stop moving all day long.  From the time your feet hit the floor in the morning, until you finally have them all down for the night, you are in constant motion feeding, bathing, cleaning house, doing laundry, planning meals....the list goes on and on.  And though, I was thankful for the times Hannah required me to sit down and nurse her, it always seemed like there was something I needed that I had forgotten to pick up before I sat down.  Now don't get me wrong, the little girls sitting in the chair with me, loved to be "big helpers" and grab blankets, wipes, diapers, etc. but once the story book was opened they no longer volunteered to help.  It was at this time in my life that I came up with the Breastfeeding Survival Basket.  I cannot tell you how many steps or how much time this basket saved me, but save me it did!  I filled a basket full of diapers, wipes, diaper cream, nursing pads and Lansinoh cream and sat it beside my chair.  Each time Hannah wanted to eat, I grabbed a glass of ice water and my girls grabbed their book of choice.  By the time my fourth baby arrived, the survival basket was a permanent fixture on the side table.  This was probably a good thing, since Hayden didn't mind if we sat in the recliner all day long nursing and rocking.  In those days I think the only time I got out of my chair was to go to the bathroom and feed kids.  
     So, thinking back to those days, gave me an awesome idea for you all.  I have put together a Breastfeeding Survival Basket for this month's prize.  It will help bring a little peace if not organization to the chaos of having a newborn.
Breastfeeding Survival Basket

As always, if you would like to enter the drawing, just let me know.  I just need name, address, phone, email, and due date.

24 hour Breast Feeding Helpline: 417-315-2135
Email: volckt@lpha.mopublic.org
Or stop by the Polk County Health Center.  I would love to talk with you!

Good luck !!




Tuesday, June 4, 2013

May Prize Winner

Congratulations!!   Congratulations!!   Congratulations!!

Congratulations go out to Casey Stinley and new baby Rosie, winners of the May Prize the Sock bouquet.

It is not too late to enter the prize drawings.  I will be putting a new basket together every month.  Watch the blog to get the first glimpse of the latest goodies.  As always, if you would like to enter the drawing, just let me know.  I just need name, address, phone, email, and due date.

24 hour Breast Feeding Helpline: 417-315-2135
Email: volckt@lpha.mopublic.org
Or stop by the Polk County Health Center.  I would love to talk with you!

Good luck and again congratulations go out to Casey.